“Should We Leave the Vacation House to the Kids?” How to Plan for Shared Family Property Without the Drama

Whether it’s a camp on the lake, a beach house, a ski condo, or a cabin that’s been in the family for decades, second homes carry deep emotional weight — and big questions when it comes to estate planning. 

Should you leave the house to all the kids together? Sell it? Put it in a trust or LLC? What happens if one child wants to keep it and another wants to cash out?

In this free webinar, you’ll learn how to plan ahead now to avoid future conflict, protect your family relationships, and increase the odds that your vacation home stays a source of connection — not resentment.
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During This Webinar, You'll Learn

  • Why shared property creates problems — even in close families. What seems “fair” now can turn into conflict later, especially when co-owners have different finances, lifestyles, or values.
  • How to create a clear plan that reflects your wishes and protects your kids. We’ll explain the legal tools that can help — including LLCs, trusts, and co-ownership agreements — and when to use them.
  • The 6 key decisions every vacation-home-owning family needs to make. From ownership rules to expense sharing to what happens if someone wants out — we’ll walk you through the must-discuss topics.
  • Real-life stories of what goes wrong — and how to get it right. We’ll share examples of how families have successfully (and not-so-successfully) passed down shared property, and what made the difference.
  • What to include in your estate plan to prevent future conflict. We’ll show you how to build shared property planning into your Life & Legacy Plan — and why it’s worth doing now, before decisions get harder.

why you should attend

1. Prevent Family Conflicts Before They Start

Learn how to make decisions now that protect relationships later. A thoughtful plan reduces the chance of arguments over money, fairness, or responsibility.

2. Protect Your Legacy Property

Ensure your vacation home remains a place of joy for future generations by understanding the right legal and financial structures to preserve it.

3. Gain Clarity on Your Options

From trusts and LLCs to co-ownership agreements, discover which tools work best for your family’s unique situation.

4. Learn From Real Stories

Hear examples of what works (and what doesn’t) when families try to share a home across generations, so you can avoid common mistakes.

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Wednesday, August 27

7:00 PM

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Pam Starsia

Personal Family Lawyer®
Family Business Lawyer™
Pam was born and raised in Charlton (Saratoga County), New York. After graduating from Burnt Hills-Ballston Lake in 1999, she received her undergrad degree at Princeton University, and her law degree with high honors (magna cum laude) from Georgetown University. Pam has been practicing law since 2006. She moved back home to Burnt Hills, New York in 2019 with her husband, Joe; their two sons, Dominic (10) and Luigi (8); and their rescue animals Luna (the best cat) and Buddy (the best dog). Pam founded Starsia Law in 2020, and believes strongly in the Personal Family Lawyer® way of serving her clients. She is proud to serve as a trusted advisor for life to many members of her hometown community.